Don't confuse kindness with a respectful care

Kindness often manifests in cordial smiles, kind words, and gestures of affection. However, respectful care is much deeper; it involves empathy, regard, and genuine connection.

In the context of childbirth:

1. Kindness may ensure that a professional responds with caring words, while respectful care ensures they truly listen to the pregnant person, understanding their feelings and desires.

2. Kindness is being polite, but respectful care is adapting that treatment to the history, culture, and emotions of the pregnant person.

3. Kindness offers a standard, predictable interaction. Respectful care connects us with the pregnant person in a unique way, recognizing and valuing their individuality.

4. Kindness is saying "please" and "thank you." Respectful care is asking "how do you feel?" and truly waiting for and valuing the response.

While kindness is crucial, respectful care is what transforms assistance into a memorable and positive experience. Childbirth is not just a medical procedure; it is one of the most intimate and transformative moments in a person's life. Treat it with the respect and empathy it deserves.

Remember: Respectful childbirth is not a trend, it’s your right.